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Post by Two-Tone on Mar 19, 2011 5:25:52 GMT -5
sounds exciting
Penny with grooming gear? Aw, why couldn't it be Two-tone with grooming gear?
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Post by babclayman on Mar 31, 2011 3:08:01 GMT -5
Hey, Pups. ;3
Clayton here... *Hugs* X3
Posting here to say, I’ve been under alot of stress lately, what with having to deal with everyone’s issues, like them telling me their troubles and stuff like that. Along with Barely getting, any time to myself due to, College & Performing Arts. =s
Although, I do get an Akward sense lately and ask these questions... And before you say, Nemo did this Yesterday, So it should be Okay for me to ask too. ^^;
Am I liked? You think I’m annoying? Do you think, I deserve respect? Am I the cause of everything negative on here? Am I just Second Rate to a Majority of other, Pups?
I Do my best, I do, Although it gets akward at times when someone is angry with me, for stuff I don’t mean any offence with, or treat me with Eye rolls and telling me, almost everything I do is wrong... =s
Just anything to make me feel that I’m liked and not a Second Rate Being. =s
I don’t mean any offence with this...Just not really the Biggest Self Esteme there, and trust me, I put up with A lot, and I mean, a lot. =s
Still, If you, Pups have any answers to those Questions or anything that’ll make me feel better about myself, feel free to post so. Trust me, Responses to this would mean, ALOT to me. *Hugs tight* X3
Still, Looking forward to hearing from you, Pups. *Hugs* X3
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Post by Two-Tone on Mar 31, 2011 3:36:26 GMT -5
Aw *gives Clayton a hug*
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Post by boeing on Mar 31, 2011 6:58:23 GMT -5
Everyone likes you, Bab. Everybody cares about and respects you! *hugs* Hope you feel better soon.
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Post by Shadow Dearly on Mar 31, 2011 7:54:23 GMT -5
I don't have a lot to say in this....so I'll be brief
You're liked, you're not annoying, I respect you, you're not the negative source, and definitely you're not the last thing you listed.
I think you stressed out pretty badly, in my opinion I think this is a Level 3 or 4. But you need to control your stress level, I don't know how many times I've said this to you =/. I don't like it when you're stressed out like this, because it'll stress me out seeing you stressed out
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Post by Nemo on Mar 31, 2011 8:35:10 GMT -5
Still, Looking forward to hearing from you, Pups. *Hugs* X3 I really have to ask, is this quote of yours like some kind of.. vocal tic? Where you have to have it and the end of each of your posts, otherwise it'll bother you if you don't have it? I am going to be very straightforward with this, and I do not mean to offend you, but it is getting rather annoying seeing it in almost all of your posts except in rp's. As for what else you say... Nothing wrong with posting those questions earlier, since I did the same for I felt kinda down. And yes, you do put up with a lot, especially some members -whoIwon'tname-. And for not snapping at them like I probably would've, that's definitely worthy of respect. I can definitely relate to you with the stress, my college classes are doing the same to me. That's why when I come home from them I start on my homework. And when I finish my homework I have no desire to get on YIM/MSN/whatever because I was 'pooped' from homework. This I'm pretty sure explains why I never see you on, since I get on after your curfew ^^; As a plus, you are definitely one of the nice people on this board, so don't think you're second rate cause you're not *gives you an exalt*
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Post by Hesso on Mar 31, 2011 8:48:23 GMT -5
A: yes no yes no no
also nemo, I think I know why he has this standard ending and the *hugs*
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Post by Kit on Mar 31, 2011 10:11:28 GMT -5
Am I liked? You think I’m annoying? Do you think, I deserve respect? Am I the cause of everything negative on here? Am I just Second Rate to a Majority of other, Pups? I think I'll start off with "Yes." Yes, I like you so you can now henceforth rule out the possibility of not being liked As for the second one I'll follow up with another yes. Do not take it the wrong way and I'll explain why. This is the part where I'm feeling a bit like an a**hole cause I can not think of a good way to say it. You, yourself, is not annoying. It's just how you can be at times. I think it's your struggles. I know you have not had it easy for a long time now and you will always have my sympathy in your struggles. I don't mind talking with you about it, comforting you nor helping you with characters because, believe me, I really want to help you. But that demands that you actually take my help. Alot of the times we have talked about it, I feel like nothing I say really means anything because we can talk the next day and you worry about the same thing as if you have forgotten what my thoughts on it was the previous time. It's like you're not listening. I mean, it's nothing wrong about complaining. Come to me and complain if something bothers you, please =3 But you must understand that listening to complaints about the same thing over and over is gonna make it depressing for me as well. Eventually I might have to say "Sorry, I can't help you with this. You'll have to talk to someone else about it" >> I guess I'm also curious about the line you always end your posts with. This is what I really feel like an a**hole for pointing out, because your line is only meant as positive and kind. Yet it sort of reminds me of people who appologizes all the time for everything, on big and small occasions. Their appologies will mean nothing because they use them so easily. It kind of feels like you looking forward to our posts doesn't really mean anything cause you write that no matter what, anyays. I guess I'm also bothered by the frequent use of *hugs* and smileys inbetween every sentance. I'm not bothered by them because you are using them, I'm bothered by them in general. You don't see me use them very much because I think it's kinda childish, to be honest. When I'm bombarded with them, I don't really feel like responding to them very much. And your inconsistent use of commas annoy the grammar-nazi in me to no end xD Now, with all of that being said I'll have to move down to my third yes. Yes, Of course you deserve respect. Please tell me if there is anything that has lead you to think we are not respecting you. You are probably the most selfless and kindest member on this board. In the years I have known you, I can not think of one time where I have seen you do something mean on purpose. The sentence about being "the cause of everything negative" was a harsh thing to say. I really hope you are not that uncertain of yourself. If you treat yourself like that, then how are we supposed to treat you? No, you are not the cause. I don't even think there is a cause of that. You are not second rate. You are one of the most central, active, generous and contributing members on this site. Please start to believe that.
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Post by Belchic on Mar 31, 2011 14:13:03 GMT -5
Clayton, why must you do this? First of all, let me answer your questions:
Am I liked? - YES! You think I’m annoying? - NO! Do you think, I deserve respect? - YES! Am I the cause of everything negative on here? - NO! Am I just Second Rate to a Majority of other, Pups? - NO!
Why must you have all these ridiculous and emo thoughts? You are wanted here! You are one of our most beloved members! This board will not be the same without you! Please stay, bab! Don't commit suicide just because of what's going on in your life! What makes you think you're not welcome here? If there's anyone here who comes close to that, it's me! I wish there was something I could do to cheer you up, but I sadly can't think of anything. But please, bab, we want you to stay, and we want to be friends with you!
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Post by Puffles on Mar 31, 2011 14:30:04 GMT -5
Am I liked? YES You think I’m annoying? NO Do you think, I deserve respect? YES Am I the cause of everything negative on here? NO Am I just Second Rate to a Majority of other, Pups? NO NO NO!!!
What everyone else said, we all like you and care about you Bab and that will never ever change. ;D
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Post by Bishop on Mar 31, 2011 14:39:35 GMT -5
Don't commit suicide just because of what's going on in your life! Wait, what?
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Post by Nemo on Mar 31, 2011 16:09:41 GMT -5
Don't commit suicide just because of what's going on in your life! Wait, what? Yeah.. Bab never mentioned suicide anywhere o.o ... *gives Bab an extra hug and some batteries for his growth ray* ^^
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Post by babclayman on Mar 31, 2011 16:45:41 GMT -5
Yeah, All the Pups are Right, Belchic. ^^; Not once did I mention suicide.
I guess it's a matter of Stress that's been on my back lately, Along with the Fact, I need some more sleep, late nights, etc. ^^; Still, I am sure with some Forty Winks, I'll feel better. =3
Still, Thanks for your Kind Words, Pups. ^-^ It really does make me feel better, And I'm sure, I'll be better tommorrow. =3
Also, To explain my Case on Signatures at the bottom of posts...it's...Something I been O.C.D with lately, long story. ^^;
Still, Thanks for your Words, Pups. *Hugs* X3 Looking forward to hearing more from you. *Hugs* X3
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Post by Nemo on Mar 31, 2011 16:50:20 GMT -5
Also, To explain my Case on Signatures at the bottom of posts...it's...Something I been O.C.D with lately, long story. ^^; Though.. do you think you could try WORKING on it a bit by not posting it as much? ^^; But hey, least you feel better!
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Post by Graygrl92 on Apr 1, 2011 18:12:43 GMT -5
Hehe....in Bab's defense....its a lot easier to SUGGEST stopping a tic than it is to actually do it. *has OCD*
But I see where y'all are coming from.
^^"
Ya--glad you're feeling better, Bab!
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