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Post by Street Mutt, Trio on Oct 30, 2011 10:37:33 GMT -5
Glad to hear it Bienie ^^
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Post by Two-Tone on Oct 31, 2011 0:23:27 GMT -5
yeah thank goodness
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Post by Bienie on Jan 6, 2012 11:32:17 GMT -5
Okay, I've had this strange feeling for a few days and I felt like I needed to tell it somewhere. But I don't feel like posting it on dA for some reason, so whatever, gonna do it here. I'm not really looking for advice, I just want to say this somewhere. OKay, so, I never understood the concept of falling in love with someone you never met. Some people I know in real life have had relationships that started online, sometimes they hadn't even seen a picture of them before they started dating. Then I started visiting dA and YouTube a lot and lots of people had those kinds of relationships, and I was just like "okay I guess" but when I thought about it for a while I decided for myself I'd probably never do it. (On New Year's Eve I started a "one minute internet relationship" with a friend on dA but that was just a joke and nothing involving serious feelings ) But now, I don't know anymore. Lately I've been bawww'ing a lot over some girl I have a crush from my class who's going to move to another class (I know, not that much of a big deal but for a socially awkward person like me it means we're barely ever gonna speak again) and these whole vacantions I've been quite sad about it. Well, that is, until a few days ago or something. Around New Year. New Year's Day. One of my recent watchers on dA gave me fanart, and even though she had done multiple fanarts and they were made with linearts, I was quite surprised since all the other artists she did fanart for were the extremely famous ones, the ones anyone knows. But anyways, I did a Join.Me soon after that and she showed up as well, and after that we started to talk (the morning after that, while it was night for her because she lives in the USA). And well... I guess I kinda started to like her, it was nice to have someone to talk to in the usually lonely mornings (while it's morning in Belgium it's night in the USA so most people are sleeping, but that person stayed up véry late :'D) and I really enjoyed our talks and now I usually do nothing but wait until she is online and when she is I do nothing but talk with her. And I think about her too much. Well, more than I hink about other people. I'm not even that sad about the girl from my class anymore. And it's just really strange. And embarassing. But maybe it just means my brains are turning insane because I use the computer too much. Also possible. Conclusion, I might have to change my views about love on the internet I suppose. /end of wall of text
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Post by boeing767 on Jan 6, 2012 11:36:48 GMT -5
Oh my god, you're feeling exactly how I feel right now.
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Post by Bienie on Jan 6, 2012 11:39:23 GMT -5
Really? Well, phew, glad I'm not the only one who feels like that
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Post by boeing767 on Jan 6, 2012 11:44:02 GMT -5
yeah. I'm currently having the same feelings about someone right now.
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Post by luisa on Jan 6, 2012 12:20:02 GMT -5
Online relationships? Naw Thanks. My only love forever is Fred/shot
But anyways, I feel it is okay for you to have a crush on an online person, but I wouldn't get my hopes up on it, personally. Do you even know if she's actually straight or not? Because, you know, sucky orientations can be a problem XP
I don'0t really know what to say, as I am not fond of internet relationships. Just good luck, I guess.
Also, good job stealing my thread's title :'D/shot again
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Post by Bienie on Jan 6, 2012 12:25:20 GMT -5
I know Luisa :3 Yeah, we're friends now and I'm just trying to keep it that way. Not hoping for anything else :3 Pfft, on dA a you're never sure about someone's orientation. A lot of people seem to "turn" bisexual/pansexual all of a sudden, but when they are out of their teenage years they just admit they were straight. I guess it's just that in internet relationships some people don't care about gender that much. :3 But I'm just assuming she's straight and not into online relationships to be safe. xP
Yeah, I think you told me that once before. :3 I wasn't fond of it either to be honest. x'D
YOU WERE THE THIEF :'D I was first. xD
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Post by luisa on Jan 6, 2012 12:31:21 GMT -5
YUS FRED IS MINE MINEMINEMINE
You and me both seem to always be happy we just have SOME kind of relationship with the person we like. If we are friends with them, fine for us. Another thing we have in common. Well, I suppose that is true. I mean, if the other person doesn't live in this side of the globe I doubt mexican persons would care about his/her gender X3 Though I seem to be strictly straight for some reason. I just can't see myself with a girl I suppose XP
I did? PFFFFT I could have sworn I came up with the title myself :'D Gotta think of something original for that now XP
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Post by Bienie on Jan 6, 2012 12:38:14 GMT -5
You can have him Except I will steal his name every now and then :3 Well, being around the person I like makes me happy and I'd rather have something than nothing at all, even if nothing will make me forget about them sooner. Yeah, I've seen people on dA go "I will never date girls." "Lesbians are gross." Few months later: in a relationship with a girl. xP Nah, I don't think you'll ever be with a girl, it just doesn't fit you for some reason :') Haha, I've had this topic since October and it has always had this name xD Though I don't really mind you having it as well. xP
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Post by luisa on Jan 6, 2012 12:43:27 GMT -5
You'll steal his name to put it on evil ponies? D': Naw, go ahead and steal it X3 That applies for me as well. Just hanging around with him and laughing and spending time together satisfies me Indeed, people in the internet are often way too confident about their online orientation XP It is like if I said I'd never date a girl. I am not saying that, I am saying it is just unlikely it happens. Indeed, I dunno, my personality seems to be more appealing to hang around boys either as friends or smething else, and thus I don't quite see myself ina relationship with a girl. Not now, at least. But I don't like to copy people Anyways, I changed it and find my new one somehow funnier :3
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Post by Bienie on Jan 6, 2012 12:53:16 GMT -5
Yuss I know the feeling Which is why I was so sad that girl was gonna change class groups and I didn't see her on Facebook these holidays. :3 Online orientation is just not the same I guess since you don't get attracted by things like body smells, but just the personality, meaning you could like anyone, which is why people call themselves pansexual "gender doesn't matter!" I guess not, but I doubt all of them are pansexual in real life. I don't even have any boys as friends (okay, I don't have any real good friends in real life, but I don't hang around boys) but I dunno, I don't think I could see myself with a boy. I get it :') Fleas: BAD ANNOYING UURGH Juicy steak: OMG HEAVEN Smart
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Post by luisa on Jan 6, 2012 13:04:18 GMT -5
Indeed, fleas are evil stuff I don't like and steaks are wonderful stuff I love:3
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Post by babclayman on Jan 6, 2012 14:28:02 GMT -5
Awww, Our Bienie has an Online Crush, eh? <3
While I myself haven’t had a couple relationship via Internet, The furthest I got to is Online Friendship and I will say a majority of you here are some of my closest. =3 I can understand crushes as well all get them at times.
I’m okay with any relationships, if your Hetro, Homo or Bi, I don’t mind, however still unsure what to think on Online Relationships. ^^;
Still, Have a steak, Bienie! ;3 Interesting news though.
Anything else been going on in your world? =3
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Post by Bienie on Jan 6, 2012 14:55:21 GMT -5
Meh, I thought I'd never get one for sure, since most of my dA friends are nice, but I don't need anything else from them than friendship. But now... Pfft, it's complicated, but we'll see what this is gonna be. If we just stay friends then so be it :3 As for the rest, nothing really interesting, except for the fact that a dA friend of mine, who also lives in Belgium, is going to make me a plushie of one of my first OC's I used on dA and a previous sona, Shooter the Arctic fox! I can't wait until it's finished!
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