Post by Nemo on Nov 3, 2011 8:18:36 GMT -5
Think we can cut down on the drama here please?
Because honestly yesterday, that was quite disgusting what happened here. Belchic's thread, I think you all remember. It was just another one of his famous "I'm leaving forever" posts in his vent thread. And because this is a constant thing, of course many of us are going to be annoyed with it (and if you weren't you must be a VERY patient person.)
He didn't even get to make a REPLY after that vent, and I still had to lock it because of a couple people's attitudes on there.
So I am going to offer you guys some tips.
*If somebody is posting or saying something you don't like. Then just IGNORE it and walk away. You may feel bothered by it but it'll help in the long run, and if you learn to ignore those kinds of posts it'll be easier to deal with in the future.
*If you're replying to a vent, nothing wrong here. But don't just "scream" (aka all caps), insult, whine, or degrade the other person. This will only add fuel to the drama fire and the other person will just have more REASON to continue their drama vent.
*Like the above idea, if you can't think of anything mature or nice to say then just DON'T SAY ANYTHING. Aka be quiet.
*If you are annoyed with just one specific person on here, then PM them about it and discuss it privately. Getting the whole forum involved will not do you any good whatsoever. And frankly I'm sure most of us really don't wanna hear it/see it/get involved.
*The block tool is there for a reason. If you are feeling truly bothered by someone, annoyed, angry, they're harassing you, etc. then just block them from sending you pm's. Don't just block them because they disagree with you on something.
I just say this because everyone. Ahem, scratch that, not everyone but a select few members of this forum really need to change their acts on here.
Because I can honestly say, unless this stops (then again that would be asking too much considering who you guys are). Unless things at least SIMMER down on here, then I'm outta here.
~Nemo
Because honestly yesterday, that was quite disgusting what happened here. Belchic's thread, I think you all remember. It was just another one of his famous "I'm leaving forever" posts in his vent thread. And because this is a constant thing, of course many of us are going to be annoyed with it (and if you weren't you must be a VERY patient person.)
He didn't even get to make a REPLY after that vent, and I still had to lock it because of a couple people's attitudes on there.
So I am going to offer you guys some tips.
*If somebody is posting or saying something you don't like. Then just IGNORE it and walk away. You may feel bothered by it but it'll help in the long run, and if you learn to ignore those kinds of posts it'll be easier to deal with in the future.
*If you're replying to a vent, nothing wrong here. But don't just "scream" (aka all caps), insult, whine, or degrade the other person. This will only add fuel to the drama fire and the other person will just have more REASON to continue their drama vent.
*Like the above idea, if you can't think of anything mature or nice to say then just DON'T SAY ANYTHING. Aka be quiet.
*If you are annoyed with just one specific person on here, then PM them about it and discuss it privately. Getting the whole forum involved will not do you any good whatsoever. And frankly I'm sure most of us really don't wanna hear it/see it/get involved.
*The block tool is there for a reason. If you are feeling truly bothered by someone, annoyed, angry, they're harassing you, etc. then just block them from sending you pm's. Don't just block them because they disagree with you on something.
I just say this because everyone. Ahem, scratch that, not everyone but a select few members of this forum really need to change their acts on here.
Because I can honestly say, unless this stops (then again that would be asking too much considering who you guys are). Unless things at least SIMMER down on here, then I'm outta here.
~Nemo